More Than a Weekly Dance
Tuesday nights at the Doghouse Tavern are the heartbeat of the Eastern North Carolina Shag Club, but they are only part of the story. Throughout the year, the club sponsors several fantastic parties where members can have some of the best times of their lives. Each one has its own mood, its own rhythm and its own reasons to put on good shoes.
This article takes you through the club year, celebration by celebration, so you know what to look forward to and how to make the most of every party. The club's parties are one of the main advantages of membership, and they are a large part of why people stay for years.
New Year's Eve Party
The year begins with a dance. The New Year's Eve party invites members to ring in the new year with music, friends and a full dance floor. There is something special about moving to a favorite beach music song as the clock turns, surrounded by people who share your love of the dance.
Plan ahead for this one. Choose an outfit that is festive yet comfortable, wear smooth-soled shoes and arrange a safe ride home. Arrive with a good attitude and be ready to dance with friends old and new. It is a wonderful way to begin the year.
The Valentine Party in February
In February, the club hosts a romantic Valentine party. It is a chance to dance with a sweetheart, a close friend or a room full of new acquaintances. The atmosphere is warm and affectionate, and the music suits the occasion.
You do not need a partner to enjoy it. Shag is a social dance, and members are glad to share a song with anyone who asks. If you are attending with a special someone, this is a lovely evening to dance your favorite songs together.
SOS at North Myrtle Beach in April
In April, whenever possible, the club joins other shag clubs at North Myrtle Beach for SOS. It is a joint party that has been described as Spring Break for adults, which captures the mood perfectly. Dancers from many clubs gather for music, friendship and a beach weekend.
Members can save five dollars on the SOS card, a small but welcome benefit. The weekend is a good chance to meet shaggers from across the Association of Carolina Shag Clubs, which includes more than one hundred non-profit clubs stretching from Baltimore to Miami.
The Re-Up Party in June
June brings the exciting Re-Up party for members. The name suggests a fresh start, and the event is an opportunity to celebrate the club, to reconnect with fellow dancers and to welcome the summer season. Members gather to dance, catch up and enjoy each other's company.
It is also a good reminder of why membership matters. Because the party is held for members, it reflects the club's sense of community and gratitude. If you have been thinking about joining, this is a fine reason to do so.
SOS Again in September
September brings another SOS joint party at North Myrtle Beach whenever possible. Returning to the shore at the end of summer has a special feeling, with music in the air and friends ready to dance. Many members make a tradition of attending both the spring and fall editions.
If you are attending for the first time, go with friends from the club. Experienced members can share tips, introduce you to other dancers and help you enjoy the weekend with confidence.
The Fall Fling Party in October
October's Fall Fling is an entertaining party that celebrates the changing season with dancing and good company. Cool evenings make the dance floor feel cozy, and the mood is light and playful.
It is a fine event for bringing a guest, since it offers a relaxed introduction to the club. Visitors see the friendly atmosphere, hear the music and often decide to join after one evening.
The Christmas Party in December
The year closes with a Christmas party in December. It is a festive evening with music, friends and a holiday spirit that is hard to resist. After a full year of dancing, members gather to celebrate together.
This is also a natural time to think about giving. The club contributes to the TEDI BEAR foundation in Pitt County each year with a minimum of $1,000 and numerous teddy bears for needy children, bringing the warmth of the season to young people who need it.
Tuesday Nights Keep the Year Together
Between parties, the club dances every Tuesday at the Doghouse Tavern, 506 Second Street, Ayden, NC. Doors open at 5pm, the DJ, music and dancing run from 6pm to 9pm, and admission is five dollars per person. This steady rhythm keeps friendships strong and keeps dancers sharp for each celebration.
On the second Tuesday of each month, the club also holds its business meeting at Parker's Restaurant, Memorial Drive, Greenville, NC at 6:30pm. Members who plan to eat should arrive at 5:30pm. The meeting helps plan the events and keeps the club running.
Planning Your Party Calendar
A little planning helps you enjoy the club year fully. Start by marking the main events on your calendar: New Year's Eve, the February Valentine party, the April SOS weekend, the June Re-Up party, the September SOS weekend, the October Fall Fling and the December Christmas party. Add the Tuesday dance nights and the monthly business meeting, and you will have a clear picture of the year.
If you plan to travel to North Myrtle Beach for SOS, think ahead about lodging, travel time and who you would like to go with. Traveling with club friends makes the weekend more fun and more relaxed. Since members receive email reminders about upcoming events, you can also watch your inbox for updates and details as each celebration approaches. A simple plan keeps you from missing anything and lets you look forward to every date.
What First-Time Guests Can Expect
If you are new, a party can seem like a big step, but it is often the most welcoming way to meet the club. You will find friendly faces, familiar music and a relaxed mood. Nobody expects you to know every step or every name, and members enjoy making guests feel at home.
Introduce yourself when you arrive, find a seat with a friendly group and watch a few songs before you dance. When you feel ready, ask someone to dance or accept an invitation. Tell people you are new, because most will be glad to help. Many members joined the club after a single party, simply because they had so much fun. Take a friend along if you like, and be prepared to come back for more.
Tips for Enjoying Every Party
Wear comfortable clothes and shoes with smooth soles. Drink water between songs. Dance with different partners and introduce yourself to new faces. Take breaks when you need them. Arrange a safe ride home, and plan ahead for overnight trips to the beach.
Most importantly, bring a positive attitude. The best parties are the ones where everyone feels welcome, and each member has a part in creating that atmosphere.
How to Stay Informed
Members receive emails reminding them of upcoming club meetings and events, so you will know what is happening and when. It is a simple but valuable benefit that keeps everyone connected.
ENCSC committees are also available for members who want to take an active part in events. Helping with a party is a rewarding way to meet people, share ideas and make the celebrations even better.
After the Last Song
The best part of a party often comes after the final dance. Members linger to say goodnight, share a laugh and make plans for the next Tuesday. Take a moment to thank the people who helped organize the event, including the committee members who volunteered their time, and to thank the DJ for the music.
Head home safely, rested and happy, and look forward to the next celebration. A year of club parties builds a long list of good memories, and each one makes the next gathering feel more like a reunion among friends.
Celebrate With Us
Every party on the calendar is a chance to dance, laugh and make friends. The combination of music, tradition and community is what makes our club special, and what has kept it going since 1985.
Membership is twenty dollars per year. You can mail your application to ENCSC, PO Box 44, Greenville, NC 27835. Come to a Tuesday dance night first if you like, and see for yourself why members look forward to every celebration.
Frequently Asked Questions
How many parties does the club hold each year?
The club sponsors a New Year's Eve party, Valentine party, Re-Up party, Fall Fling party and Christmas party, plus SOS weekends.
When are the SOS parties?
In April and September at North Myrtle Beach, whenever possible.
Are parties only for members?
The Re-Up party is for members. Membership also adds email reminders and SOS card savings.
Do I need a partner?
No. Shag is a social dance and members are glad to dance with newcomers.
How will I know the dates?
Members receive emails reminding them of upcoming meetings and events.
What does membership cost?
Twenty dollars per year.